The balance comes when you are the sum of your parts.
This is connected to the concept of One/Ton/None. I’ll explain further, here.
A good friend I met over dms and that spilled into real-life sent me an excerpt from a New York Times review of a play she saw that deeply moved her. The review was written after she had seen the play, and she said the play having hit the same way it did as the reviewer:
