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KJ's avatar

It’s that feeling when you have on something that’s just wrong… for YOU. I had in a dress the other day that I’d been trying to style right for over a year. I had unbuttoned the skirt, had workout leggings underneath bc I thought well I’ll try it as sort of an edit-up going to exercise, with these great clogs that I love… and decided, walking into HIIT, that I loathed it, even for this, totally didn’t feel like me, the waist was all wrong even though I loved the color and there was no reason to try any more. When I left class, someone said “what a pretty dress”… and I still put it out to consign. Just not a full me look and never was gonna be. (It was Cynthia Rowley not Tibi :))

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Susan Grant's avatar

I always felt so shallow if I missed a specific cue or visual that I wanted to communicate....It could really fuck up my day ......who would ever understand that? My brain and sense of self felt compromised . How can I be expected to take on new challenges and issues if I was not 100% my best self? Thanks for putting this into reality through your splendid choice of words and perfect pictorials......secretly I would love to be the woman who jumps out of bed throughs on whatever is nearby and useful and just takes on the day....... I could not do that and still be me....ouch! It will always be my cross to bear.......Your piece allows me some comfort ....

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