There is a common suspicion we hold toward things that move quickly. A job offer that comes together in a week. A relationship that becomes serious in a month. A decision that seems to crystallize overnight after years of indecision. We are taught, culturally, and instinctively, that speed is reckless, that good things take time, that if something is mo…
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